To Get Involved, Dads Can:

1. Define Your Role. There are plenty of opportunities for

hands-on dads as playmates, diaper changers, bathers, and
soothers. The key is to play, touch, and talk with a baby as
much as possible.

2. Create Your Own Rituals. Turn activities like running

weekend errands into regular routines for father and child. Although they may seem mundane, simply having consistent one-on-one time will make the activity special.

3. Take On Responsibilities. A dad can pick up his child from

child care, help him get dressed in the morning, prepare his
meals, and take him to the doctor. Directly caring for a child
will make dads feel good about themselves and their fathering
skills.

4. Try to Balance Work and Family. While being involved is

critical, be careful not to overdo it. Dads should have some time for themselves so that they can refuel and have something to offer their child.

Fathers Helping Their Children Flourish

+ When fathers are involved in children's daily activities, their

children are more sociable.

+ When fathers have a positive attitude, their children perform

better in school.

Make the Most of Fathertime

An active and involved father or important male influence can boost a child's self-esteem and contribute to his sense of confidence. Here are some ways to make the most of fathertime:

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Read with your child. Carve out a regular time slot when your child knows he can sit with you to read stories. Go to the library together to explore a variety of books.

Create a "dad's morning". Be in charge of all activities one morning each week. You, mom and your child will all look forward to this.

Run errands together. Determine which errands you can do with you child.

Tackle sleep issues. Take turns with mom handling issues that arise late at night. It's a great way to comfort and connect with your child.

Spend time at home, especially when caring for a baby. The first weeks of a baby's life are crucial for bonding as a family. So, save vacation time to use after the baby's birth.

Communicate with the child's caregiver. You can learn a lot about your child from her caregiver. Keep connected with simple questions: How much did my child eat? How long did she nap?